Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

quiet
lonely
alone
2003

Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

OK, it's me again, sorry guys. One of these days maybe I will get meth smart, in the meantime, please bear with me.
Over the weekend he was busy, busy, busy, nonstop, doing this, doing that, doing stuff he promised to do a year ago but didn't. Then yesterday, he slowed down a bit; started getting grumpy....today even slower and getting VERY grumpy......tomorrow will he be back to being a complete azz? I'm expecting this. Is this a sign he's using again?

SOS1988

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

yes, it sounds like he is tweaking. Sound like it....doesnt mean he is. Look for pale skin, weight loss, increased acne, or skin sores, disorganized/illogical thinking, paranoia, repeated clicking of lighters; missing pens, spoons, and lightbulbs, ridiculously dry mouth, dialated eyes, wide eyes, looking "dead" or really alive.....or both at teh same time. Meth makes you smell different too, you swet more so you develop more body odor, and meth goes through your skin and you smell not quite right, its a hard smell to explain if your not a tweaker...... Im sure it'd make you taste different too. If you suspect him of tweaking give him a big old kiss....dry mouth...bitterness.....chemical taste that kinda thing would be a dead giveaway if hes gakked; i dunno if its different for people who shoot up. good luck with your troubles

forget
suzette

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

has he eaten or slept?
.....is he making weird faces or gnawing on his cheek or?

is his skin tone good? or translucent?
.....you'll see the veins in his body in some areas.

can he look you in the eye and talk to you, and listen?
...and understand?

or does he look all around and inturrupt you, and never appear to absorb your sentence...
...but is talking about the same subject with a bizarre twist?

quiet
lonely
alone
2003

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

He's eating, but not as much as usual, very little (Enough to throw me off???) Example: had a small sandwich but totally ignored his favorite cake sitting in front of him, that sandwich was for a grown man and was all he had the entire day Gnawing on his cheek yes yes yes yes, all the time! Pimples on his cheeks I call them pimples anyway, red sores Never hardly looks me in the eyes anyway, but a definate yes on doesn't absorb the conversation, a few minutes after I say something he may turn around and repeat the same thing and then act like I never said it. I guess I'll see how he acts when he gets up....I'm a little worried

imlost
inky

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

Tweaking.
When he sweats, he will smell like cat piss.

Quote:

I'm a little worried

Why?

askfor
themoon

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

So that's where that smell comes from. When my daughter lived with us my husband complained of how her room smelled. I culd never figure out what the smell was.

Imget
inrite

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

When I was getting high, I could do a ton of dope... then go to mcdonalds and spend 20 bucks lol

Yeah, when the dope comes out of your pores it smells pretty bad.

When your coming down....You get azzhole syndrome, it gets worse as time goes on... till you get high again.

imlost
inky

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

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So that's where that smell comes from. When my daughter lived with us my husband complained of how her room smelled. I culd never figure out what the smell was.

Cat piss - from the body ridding itself of the toxins, the ammonia base in the meth is my guess.
It's in their clothes, their body reaks of it when you get close.

I never smelled it on my husband when he was using. I did when he went to get clean-he was sweating in his sleep one night and when I rolled over against him, it woke me up.
That bad!
Cat piss.

forget
suzette

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

I never had that...
...of corse I masterbated in the bathtub 6 hours a day.
(I use running water)

luvepi
phany

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

Suze, are you all wrinkled and crinkled still or did your skin go back to normal? Thats a long time in the bath...

quietly, I'm sorry you are getting nervous about his possible use. I suggest doing something wonderful for yourself today to get it off your mind-if you possibly can.

forget
suzette

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

I did'nt stay in 6 hours..
....Id run all the hot water out, get out, clean, or destroy...is more appropriate....and get back in.


Your boy is doing speed.
.....or he is developing severe mental disorders

are you finding wierd stuff like, dis assembled pens?
foil? foil balls in the trash, black on one side?....straws?
.......spoons out? ...lighter clicking in the bathroom?

is he loosing stuff?

.....like everything he puts down?

quiet
lonely
alone
2003

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

Yes, he is always always losing stuff! He smokes these really bad strong cigars so he always stinks, or in my opinion he does anyway, he thinks it's funny that I can't stand the smell. I don't know that I would smell anything over the smell of those. And to the above person who asked, yes, he is very domineering, very dominating, everything has to be his way or NO way. I have to answer questions in a "certain" tone of voice, in a "certain" way, or he starts cussing and swearing till I "do right." He has never hit me, but sometimes he has made me think he would. Anything he loses is "my fault" and he has accused me of hiding things, then when he finds whatever it is, there is no apology for accusing me. I haven't found anything like disassembled pens, foil, or straws.

forget
suzette

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

he might just be an a-hole.

....I think you should leave.

you want your kids to think that's acceptable?

.......he never disappears in the bathroom for longer than usual? ...or go off alone?

you cant smell speed smoke.

.....but....if he's smoking...
...........you'd have seen paraphinalia.
and he'd be in the bathroom alot.

if he's snorting it, his bills will be rolled up...or straws .....snorting sounds speed in his nose hair.
(maybe)

if he's shooting...
......I dunno that one.

holes in his body?

imlost
inky

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

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yes, he is very domineering, very dominating, everything has to be his way or NO way. I have to answer questions in a "certain" tone of voice, in a "certain" way, or he starts cussing and swearing till I "do right."

Meth or no meth, why would you allow someone to treat you that way?
Would you ever treat someone that way?

Why settle for less?
Life is too short to spend it miserable.

QLA, IF he is on meth, these traits you are seeing are going to get amplified.
He will get even more domineering, more dominating, and yes there is a greater likelihood he will get violent- as you are already getting that feel -
Meth will rid him of self control here- impulse will be his thought and actions.

You have some heavy duty thinking to do.

herewe
goagain

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

QLA,
A number of days ago, I read a post where you said your hubby had threatened your mom, and that that was it....I haven't read anything from you since and was just wondering if you're okay....If you're out there listening, let me know, okay? Worried about you....

danimal
55

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

Your boy is doing speed...AND developing severe mental disorders.
And without some type of drastic awakening, it's going to get worse instead of better.
IMO your safety is the paramount issue at hand.

kymosabi

Re: Boyfriend's behavior: busy nonstop...then grumpy; meth again?

He is definately geeked out! As imlostinky said even if he is not using, that kind of behavior is unexusable, don't let anyone treat you like that! Why should you have to answer someone in their opinion of "the right way", screw that honey, jump ship or throw him overboard, just my opinion!