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hstuerke |
What Can I do after he
gets out of jail for meth?
Is there anything I can
do to help my husband after he gets out of jail for meth? How
should I be supportive, how should I help to keep him away from
the stuff? Any advice, suggestions? |
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lily |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
Find a good
counseling/rehab centre and offer to go along with him.
Keep reminding him of how special he is to his precious girls.
Educate yourself so you know what lies ahead.
This link will help:
www.crystalrecovery.com/
Don't enable him financially.
Pray.
Good Luck
lily |
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hstuerke |
Re:
What Can I do after he
gets out of jail for meth?
Thank You, Lily. I will do my best but will
enable him no more.
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forget
suzette |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
how long has he been in jail?
....if long enough to be steady...or if not very long.
My advice is...
TRY to...
.....Have fun, have love, have joy, make him smile, snuggle,
cook good food for him in French maid outfits with no panties.
bond, connect, look deeply in his eyes and search for his
soul...
...show him yours...hold him and radiate love thru your pores
into his.
...give him massages, put a shower curtain on the bed and
slather oil on you both and slide all over him.
have picnics...
...lay in the grass and look at the sky.
show him what else there is.
....send him either to NA or my website. so he can be with other
speed freaks sometimes so he'll feel like he's part of the
world.
....the disassociation from meth PLUS prison...is hardcore.
he'll return to that world, if this one has nothing for him.
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lily |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
Quote:
he'll return to that world, if this
one has nothing for him.
Perfectly put Suzie !
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hstuerke |
Thanks
Thank you, Ladies. I'm in tears
but thanks.
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TnSkye |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
SFJ has a great website. You may
want to start
here
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Loraura |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
Quote:
how should I help to keep him away
from the stuff?
1. Stop trying to find the answer to that
question. YOU will never have the power to keep him from doing
anything. Only he has that power. Let the responsibility for his
actions lie where they should -- with him.
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scaredma |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
I think you have received some
really good advice, but bottom line is that it will be his
decision. Good Luck
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JUSTCATS |
Re: What Can I do after
he gets out of jail for meth?
Be his very best friend, and
listen. That is all that you can do. And as Loraura said above-
stop trying to find the answers- he is the only one that holds
the power to want to stay clean.
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